Mother’s Day is just around the corner. Not everyone can be a mom, but we all have a mom somewhere. Some people have good relationships with their mothers and some people don’t. Nevertheless, motherhood is certainly worth honoring. There is no other relationship quite like a mother-child relationship. Even a mostly-stay-at-home dad like me can’t be a mom. Moms are special. Only mom’s can carry us in the womb, give birth to us, nurse us and connect with us in ways no one else can. Even Jesus has a mom, and he’s God!
So, what would Jesus do for Mother’s Day? Let’s begin with what Jesus would not do for Mother’s Day. He would not disrespect his mom or be rude to her. He would not ignore his mom. He would not address her in a way that would downplay her significance in his life and ministry. There are folks who actually teach from Scripture that Jesus did all these things. Addressing such misconceptions is beyond the scope of this article. Suffice it to say that Jesus, being God and a faithful Jew, knew all about the commandment to “honor thy father and mother” and he kept it perfectly. If you are a Christian, that makes Jesus your brother. The mother of my brother is my mother, too. So, guess what? Mary is your mother!
So, what would Jesus do for his very own mother? Being God, I suppose Jesus would save his mother from sin. Mary herself said, “I rejoice in God, my savior.” God did save Mary from sin, but in a unique way. One can be saved by being pulled out of a muddy pit, or by being prevented from falling into the pit in the first place. That’s how Jesus saved Mary. He allowed her to be conceived without original sin in the womb of her mother, Saint Ann. This is what we call “The Immaculate Conception.” Of course Jesus would do that for his very own mother. What loving son wouldn’t if he could? God can do it, so he did it.
Jesus, being the King of Glory, would also enthrone his mother next to him as the “Queen Mother.” Again, Jesus being God and a good Jew would know all about the role of the queen mother in the kingdom of Israel. In the Scriptures we see Bathsheba taking her place as queen mother next to her son Solomon, the king of Israel. In fact, people made their requests to Bathsheba because they knew Solomon would listen to her and grant her requests. Solomon didn’t stop being the king; he just respected and loved his mother and her role in his kingdom. That’s what Jesus does as the King of Glory (like when Mary came to Jesus at the wedding and told them they were out of wine). That’s why we call Mary the Queen of Heaven. Because we know who the King is, and we know who the King’s mother is! Mary gets a crown from Jesus for Mother’s Day, not just a Hallmark card or flowers!
Jesus would not only save his mother from sin, he would save her from the corruption of the grave. This is what The Assumption is all about. Jesus took his mom up to Heaven to be with him. We see other people in the Bible being taken up into Heaven body and soul, so, why not Mary? Why wouldn’t Jesus allow this for Mary his mother? If you could prevent your mother from turning to dust in the grave before going to heaven, wouldn’t you do it? God can do it, so he did it. It’s only fitting.
When Mary said, “All generations shall call me blessed,” she meant it. Mary is: 1) the specially chosen daughter of the Father, 2) the spouse of the Holy Spirit, 3) the mother of the Son. If the Holy Trinity offers her such honor and regard, how can we dare not? Mary is the only “perfect” disciple! She is the only human being that was with Jesus from his human conception to his throne in Glory. Imagine if she would have said “No” instead of “Yes” to the angel Gabriel. Mary’s “Yes” brought salvation to the world. Mary is the New Eve. Her obedience undid Eve’s disobedience.
Now, if you’re thinking, “That all sounds nice, but where does the Bible say all that stuff about Mary?” My first response is, “Where does the Bible say that everything that’s true for Christians has to be in the Bible?” The Bible makes no such claim. Secondly, most of it is in the Bible but folks aren’t taught about it. Instead they are taught that Jesus primarily brushed his mother aside. Or, at best, they are taught that she was a virgin who gave birth to Jesus in a manger, but that’s it.
Fear of turning Mary into an idol of worship has prevented people from treating her as Christ treats her. Christians are supposed to be Christ-like. So, for Mother’s Day, be like your older brother Jesus! WWJD? If you are a Christian, what will you do for Mary, your mother? Catholics don’t worship Mary as if she is God. We simply follow the lead of Jesus in honoring and loving her. There’s nothing like the mother-child relationship. Knowing this, Jesus gave us his mother. It’s OK to embrace her. All she does is point us to Jesus. What else would the perfect disciple do?
For more information about Mary and Scripture, I suggest reading “Hail, Holy Queen” by Scott Hahn. A lot of information about Mary can also be found here.
And here’s a great video highlighting Scriptural points about Mary: Video